If strawmen were filled with conflict?

This strawman can not seem to understand his opponent, no matter he thinks he's being clear about his statements and speaking. This might be the end of him...

You never just say to the other person to calm down when you are argueing... everyone knows that just upsets them more!

they won't even listen to your explanation, and its getting really annoying how this cycle of argument never stops.

And then it gets physical for no reason, but you still think that it’s your fault for starting the whole thing.